The Interview Isn’t an Automated Test – It’s a Two-Way Conversation
- Michelle Denny
- Oct 27
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 28
Halfway through the interview, she thought, 'I think I’m being interviewed by ChatGPT.'
Somewhere along the way, interviews turned into interrogations. And we forgot they’re supposed to be conversations.
How it feels on both sides
We’ve all been there. For candidates, the nerves take over – you rehearse your lines, shake hands, and hope your voice doesn’t wobble.
For hiring managers, it’s back-to-back meetings, same questions, same answers, trying to spot the right fit between Teams calls.
It’s no wonder so many interviews feel flat.

When interviews stop working
When the format’s one-sided, no one wins. Candidates hold back. Employers miss the spark that makes someone stand out.
You can’t spot potential in a checklist exercise – you find it in conversation.
The best interviews don’t hunt for flaws, they explore fit.
How to rethink the interview
A good interview should feel like curiosity, not control.
Employers: swap the quick-fire Q&A for a chat that explores values, ideas and ways of working.
Candidates: ask questions that reveal the culture, not just the job spec.
Everyone: listen more than you speak.
That’s how you get beyond the CV and into real connection.
A few small shifts make a big difference
Interviews don’t need a major overhaul to feel more like conversations. Tiny tweaks can change the whole dynamic:
Swap rapid-fire questions for ones that spark real stories
Use genuine role scenarios instead of generic competency lines
Share what success looks like in the first three months
Ask, “What would help you do your best work here?”
These simple changes build trust quickly and help both sides see the real picture.
What better interviews look like
The best interviews feel like two people exploring whether they’d enjoy working together.They’re open. Straightforward. And focused on what really matters.
Employers share what the job is actually like, good bits and challenges
Candidates talk about what helps them do their best work
Both sides check for shared values and expectations
It’s less scripted, more curious and much more likely to lead to a great hire.
The takeaway
The best interviews aren’t performances – they’re partnerships.
When both sides show up curious, open and human, that’s where the real fit is found.





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